Connection & Learning Specialist | Trainer | Engineer

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The right learning experiences can unlock the lifestyle you truly desire.

by Jaebi

I teach people to learn skills in a way that builds confidence as you face life’s challenges. Learning that is equally intuitive and logical helps you master techniques while developing friendships, increasing emotional awareness and creating valuable connections at work and home.I got my start training YM + YWHA participants to build computers from scratch which they took home to families who lacked access. As their trainer, I also learned powerful lessons that became pillars of my career over the next 15 years.

  1. Hands-on, experience based learning creates faster results for individuals and groups
  2. Fear (often of failure) must be exercised to reach higher levels of growth and learning
  3. Skill-building can be structured in a way that makes a measurable difference in you life

Using these methodologies, I went on to train hundreds of students and teachers as a Training Manager at MOUSE, a Media Developer with Harlem Children’s Zone and a Technology Learning Specialist with Red Hook Initiative.

The engineering mindset served my career well but I struggled with interpersonal relationships. Logic only goes so far. I spent the next four years working with educators, coaches and trainers developing authentic relating skills, practicing radical intimacy and deepening my knowledge of healthier connection strategies.


I saw this as the missing link, allowing me to integrate rational and emotional intelligence. Now I can show up at work and in my personal life as my grandest self.

In 2016 I developed the Human Operating System (H.OS) framework for learning, which focuses on how people naturally excel at growth and learning. In 2018, I Bealover Social Skills to help you unlock and hone intelligence that can be used to enhance your life and benefit the people who matter.

I earned a Bachelors in Computer Engineering from Syracuse University, Certification in Therapeutic Crisis Intervention with Columbia University, Mental Health First Aid Certification by the National Council and Non Violent Communication.

I’m excited to help you reach your next goal, turn on intelligence that enriches connection and creates a clear path to the lifestyle you want most.

That includes teaching you how to coach yourself. Sign up to learn effective techniques to spur growth and excellence on your own or contact me for support.